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    Engagement Party Run Sheet

    An engagement party is often the first big celebration in a couple's wedding journey, and it sets the tone for the events to come. Unlike a wedding, an engagement party is typically more relaxed and personal — but that doesn't mean it should be unplanned. This engagement party run sheet template gives couples and their planners a practical framework for the celebration, ensuring the styling, catering, speeches, and toast all happen at the right moments so the couple can be fully present and enjoy every minute of their special evening.

    Sample Run Sheet

    TimeTaskResponsibleLocation
    13:00Venue setup and floral installationFloristFunction Room
    14:30Lighting and ambience setupAV TeamFunction Room
    15:30Catering and bar setupCateringBar / Dining Area
    16:30Photo backdrop and props setupPhotographerFoyer
    17:30Couple arrival and stylingPhotographerGreen Room
    18:00Final venue walkthrough by coupleEvent ManagerFunction Room
    18:30Guest arrival and welcome drinksCateringFoyer / Garden
    19:00Couple entrance and greeting guestsMCFunction Room
    19:00Canapes and minglingCateringFunction Room
    19:30Seated dining beginsMCDining Area
    19:35Entree serviceCateringDining Area
    20:10Parents' speeches and welcome to familyMCDining Area
    20:25Main course serviceCateringDining Area
    21:00Best friend / maid of honour speechMCDining Area
    21:15Couple's speech and champagne toastMCDining Area
    21:30Dessert serviceCateringDining Area
    22:00Dancing and social celebrationEntertainmentDance Floor
    00:00Guest farewell and event closeEvent ManagerFoyer

    Key Considerations

    The couple should have final say over the speech order and guest list for speakers — keep the speech program intimate and personal rather than extensive.

    Co-ordinate with the florist and photographer to capture the venue styling details before guests arrive — these make beautiful content for the couple's social media.

    Brief the MC on the couple's story, how they met, and any key names or relationship details to personalise bridging remarks between speeches.

    If parents are contributing to the event, assign them clear and meaningful roles (such as giving the welcome speech) so they feel involved and appreciated.

    Confirm the champagne toast logistics with your catering team — glasses should be pre-filled and ready to distribute promptly before the toast.

    What to Include in Your Engagement Party Run Sheet

    • Guest arrival and welcome drinks timing with venue access details
    • Speech order with the couple's approved speaker list and time allocations
    • Champagne toast logistics and timing cue
    • Catering schedule including dietary requirement accommodations
    • Photography key moments list (couple portrait, family group photos, speech moments)

    Frequently Asked Questions

    How long should speeches be at an engagement party?

    Keep each speech to two to four minutes. The engagement party is a celebration, not a formal function, so speeches should feel warm and spontaneous rather than rehearsed and lengthy. Two to four speakers is ample — typically the parents, a close friend, and the couple themselves.

    Who gives speeches at an engagement party?

    Traditionally, the parents or a parent of each person in the couple give a welcome speech, followed by a close friend (best man, maid of honour, or long-time friend), and finally the couple themselves. The couple's speech is typically the last before the champagne toast.

    What is the difference between an engagement party and a wedding rehearsal dinner?

    An engagement party is an early celebration to announce and celebrate the couple's engagement, usually held weeks or months after the proposal and typically including a wider guest list. A rehearsal dinner is held the evening before the wedding and is usually limited to the bridal party and close family.

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